Wednesday, 28 December 2011

Some people

Yeah right I'm childish...


But when I look around me, the way people talk, act and react makes me feel "And these people are telling that I AM childish ? :o" We are all humans and we are prone to make mistakes. In-fact we ought to make mistakes and at the same time we ought to understand and forgive when others commit any mistake. But people always seek justice when they are right and compassion when they are wrong. Isn't it wrong to be so?

If you are wrong - apologize. you are not gonna lose anything by asking sorry. And when you are right- be silent, our heart knows the truth and ones who are true to us will understand the truth. Is there a necessity to even talk about it? When someone back bites you just smile and move away - the greatest punishment you can give a person is the silence. If they respect you, If you mean anything at all to them then they'll understand else whats the big deal? just be happy you have discovered one rotten fruit in your basket of life and have thrown it off.

Some are playful - they make mistakes by considering everyone as their own. They take people for granted because they feel they have the right to. Some  people can't differentiate how they should treat a girl and a guy. Some people have the respect in their heart (maybe) but talk rubbish because they feel it sounds cool.  Some people whom you consider as a very close person may talk about you at your back to someone else. Some people who means the world to you don't even bother to share a word with you and doesn't understand you at all. Some people yell and jump and feel that it makes them right. Some people turn the whole story upside down to save themselves. Some people scold you without understanding what has really happened. Some people are not okay with YOU making fun of them but is ok when everyone else does. Some people just move away without giving reasons and hurt you even more. Some people love you so much and even that hurts you because they don't understand. And some people... well the list is unending...
And we'll face more and more of these some people in our life everyday every second.

It all takes a 5 minute face- to-face , heart-to-heart talk to be fine with all these some people. But these some people are the 'me childish calling childish people' who can't / won't understand or to say won't bother to find time for such a talk. So all we could do is be silent, Watch the show. After all relationships are more important in this world than proving one is right or one is wrong. 

Maturity comes with pain. Maturity comes with experience. For all those some people who don't get it - I feel jealous, I envy you because you have had a smooth life and that is why you can be childish :) 

And yeah I'm childish - but childish at heart not at brain...


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